Wednesday, June 1, 2016

The Dream Team and How it Happened

Each year, around June, every teacher stops to reflect on their most recent group of students. We find ourselves thinking "Man, these kids were really something." The definition of what that "something" is can have a vast array of explanations. Some years positive, other years not so much. This year, for me, that something meant nothing short of incredible. Simply incredible.

As an educator, and in my day to day life, I like to take time to reflect on my practice and highlight aspects that have been going well. This year, the list never ends. My kids this year were everything a teacher could ever ask for. Sure I helped guide them by building a strong classroom structure, but honestly most of it was just who they are as people.

I can picture some teachers reading this and saying "must come easy when you are in an area of privilege with unlimited resources." So before I begin, let me give you a bit of background about where I teach. Although I happen to be an area that is usually given an affluent label, that label is the exact opposite from what my school actually is. Our building is a title 1 school with extremes in cultural and socioeconomic diversity. I like to tell people that my building represents a healthy slice of America, where students enter from all walks of life. Be it wealthy or poor, no mom or two, black, white and literally everything in between. That's where I teach.

Now, with what said, regardless of the challenges that they face, my. kids. were. AMAZING! They just worked so well together! I sit and watch them as they work in groups and use kind words with each other each and everyday. I watched an older brother pull his little brother out of class to give him a pep talk about how kindergarten isn't the end of the world and he would succeed one day. I watched two girls, end of the year 4th grade girls mind you, talk out their feelings and use detail to explain how they feel when they are left out of recess activities. I even watched the entire group give unprompted applause to a struggling EI student when he was able to meet his goal of turning in every homework assignment for a week straight.

Today we welcomed in June, so today I welcomed in another hour or so of classroom reflection. I started asking myself what made this year so different from the rest? I went back and fourth between was it me or was it them, was it me or was it them. And to be completely honest with you... I think it was all of us.

A few weeks ago I was sitting down with a rather silly student of mine working on his handwriting skills. I can't remember what he said, but he made a pretty funny joke that made me laugh out loud. (Side note: when I laugh REALLY hard I smack my knee like an old man. I remember that this moment was pretty funny because I was for sure taking part in some serious knee smackage.) After he was finished I asked him where he learned timing like that. His answer thew me back for a minute. "From you" he replied with a wide toothless smile. He learned this from me? I asked him to clarify. "You're always making jokes, of course I learned from you!" Now this made me stop and think for a second. He learned this from me. He learned this from me and I've had an amazing year with these kids from day one. What am I doing that is different from the teachers in my building who are not having the same experience? You know that old teacher saying "don't crack a smile until after Christmas?" I've never done that. I think that might be my answer. I think that saying is one for the birds.

One thing that I've always practiced in the classroom is simply being myself. I pride myself on being outgoing, carefree and energetic. When I bring those elements of myself into my classroom the kids start to view me as a person who truly accepts who I am. Isn't that what we want for all of our students? To accept themselves for who they are? I noticed this happen with my group this past year more than any other.

With the hustle and bustle of data, deadlines and dibbles we need to also make sure that we are giving kids the opportunity to just be kids. Let them explore, let them enjoy each other, but even more than that let them enjoy you. Let the kids see who you are, not who you're not.


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  2. This is lovely. Sounds very similar to my year. As a lover of all things summer break, I have found my first Monday without the kids to be kinda sad!

  3. This is lovely. Sounds very similar to my year. As a lover of all things summer break, I have found my first Monday without the kids to be kinda sad!